More Than a Confidence Boost. A Confidence Reset Retreat.
Spend five days in Mexico learning how to quiet the constant self-criticism, reconnect with your spark, and finally feel sexy and present in your life.
Or taken a sexy selfie... only to delete it?
Or maybe you wanted to send it to your husband, boyfriend, or someone new, but self-doubt stopped you. Maybe you got excited about a new outfit for a fun night out or vacation but then spent the entire evening thinking about how your body looked instead of enjoying yourself.
It's stealing your mental energy.
It's leaving you exhausted.
After years as boudoir photographers, we've watched hundreds of women put their lives, put businesses, on hold because they believed they had to change their bodies before they were allowed to feel confident, sexy, or fully alive. We created the Confidence Reset Retreat because we knew there had to be another way.
Meet your Guides. Kristen Chavetz and Natasha Kaufman. When Kristen and Natasha first met, they realized they'd been seeing the exact same thing for years.
As boudoir photographers in two different states, they’d each worked with hundreds of women. Different ages. Different careers. Different body types.
And almost every single one apologized for her body before she ever stepped in front of the camera.
"I just need to lose 20 pounds."
"I hate my stomach."
They realized the photos were never the real problem.
Body image was.
An empowering photoshoot can absolutely create a breakthrough. We've watched it happen hundreds of times. But they both wanted to give women more. They wanted them to leave with beautiful images and practical tools to stop spending so much of their lives at war with themselves.
So they each started digging deeper.
Natasha, after spending more than a decade photographing boudoir and listening to hundreds of women's stories, she expanded her work by becoming a Yoga Nidra facilitator, bringing together psychology, nervous system regulation, and deep rest.
Kristen spent over a decade photographing boudoir as well and helping women rediscover their confidence and as a mom of two, she knows how easy it is to spend your life taking care of everyone else while putting yourself last.
Because here's what surprised us... So many women struggle with body image, yet unless they're diagnosed with an eating disorder, there are very few places designed to help them build a healthier relationship with themselves.
That's why we created The Confidence Reset Retreat.
Not because we think five days will magically erase decades of self-criticism.
But because we believe every woman deserves a place to step away from the noise, calm her nervous system, reconnect with herself, and stop letting body image steal her energy, her joy, her relationships, her vacations, and her life.
We can't wait to welcome you.
XO,
Natasha & Kristen
You'll spend five days surrounded by women who understand what it's like to hide behind oversized clothes, or let body image steal moments that should have been fun.
There is something deeply healing about realizing you're not the only one.
Together, we'll learn, rest, laugh, challenge old beliefs, celebrate wins, and remind each other of the truth when it's hard to see on our own.
Because lasting confidence doesn't just happen through information. It happens when you are sitting putting on makeup together. It happens in real life.
It happens when you're seen, supported, and reminded that you never had to do it alone.
When was the last time you truly rested?
Not just sleeping in. Not scrolling on your phone.
Not lying by the pool while your mind raced through your to-do list. Real rest is something many women have forgotten how to experience.
Throughout the retreat, we'll intentionally create space to slow down. Through Yoga Nidra (a guided meditation and conscious sleep practice), quiet moments, nourishing meals, meaningful conversations, and unhurried afternoons, you'll discover what it feels like to let your nervous system finally exhale.
Because when your body and mind are rested, it becomes so much easier to quiet self-criticism, reconnect with yourself, and experience confidence from a completely different place.
This isn't just a vacation. It's an opportunity to experience what real rest actually feels like.
The is for the woman who is ready to stop letting body image take up so much mental space in her life.
For five unforgettable days in Mexico, we'll help you understand where your body image beliefs came from, why they continue to show up, and most importantly give you practical tools to begin changing them.
This isn't just about feeling confident while you're here. It's about returning home with a new relationship with your body.
One that leaves more room for confidence, pleasure, connection, rest, and the life you've been too exhausted to fully enjoy.
Whether you're a nurse, healthcare worker, entrepreneur, creative, caretaker or simply a woman who's tired of spending so much mental energy worrying about her body, this retreat is your invitation to reset.
You'll leave with more than beautiful memories and incredible photos. You'll leave with practical tools you can use for years after.
And yes... there will also be margaritas, guacamole, ocean views, and plenty of time by the pool.
We will be staying at The Villa Estrella Mar, located 30 minutes from the Puerta Vallarta airport
4 night, 5 day stay in the luxury, beach-front mansion. Puerto Vallarta's iconic 22,000 square foot traditional spanish colonial architecture is nestled into the hillside on 380 feet of secluded beachfront.
Our location isn't just amazing because we are on the beach. But it definitley will make beach group photo shoots and private shoots that much bettttterr
Shared queen and king size beds you'll have a view of the ocean from every room. The sunsets are to die for.
We'll provide transportation from the airport to our private luxury villa, where you'll have time to settle into your room, unpack, and soak in the ocean views.
You will enjoy a welcome cocktail, a chef-prepared dinner, get to know the group, and share an opening workshop that will introduce the journey ahead.
We'll begin the day with a guided Yoga Nidra practice to help you quiet your mind, get mental clarity, and set an intention for the day ahead.
After breakfast, we'll dive into our first Confidence Reset workshop, where you'll begin exploring the beliefs, experiences, and patterns that have shaped the relationship you have with your body.
Following lunch, the afternoon is yours.
Relax by the infinity pool, curl up with a book, explore Puerto Vallarta, take a swim in the ocean, or simply rest.
As the sun begins to set, we'll come back together for a chef-prepared dinner, meaningful conversation, and an optional sunset yoga nidra guided meditation session.
We'll once again begin our morning with Yoga Nidra before breakfast. Today's workshops focus on giving you practical tools to rewrite old body image beliefs, quiet self-criticism, and create a healthier relationship with yourself long after the retreat is over.
This isn't just about feeling confident in Mexico. It's about learning skills you'll continue using when you return home. The afternoon is designed for freedom. Some women may enjoy their private photo shoot experience today, while others choose to spend the afternoon relaxing, exploring town, or simply enjoying uninterrupted rest.
We'll end the evening together with another beautiful dinner and optional sunset activities.
After our final morning Yoga Nidra and breakfast, we'll gather for our group photoshoot.
This day is about integrating everything you've learned and practicing what it feels like to move through the world with more freedom, presence, and self-compassion. Whether you're photographing your session, walking along the beach, floating in the pool, journaling on the terrace, or sharing laughs with new friends, today is designed to celebrate how far you've come.
We'll finish the retreat with a farewell dinner, celebration, and closing ceremony as we reflect on the week together.
Enjoy one final breakfast overlooking the ocean before we gather for our closing circle.
We'll help you create a plan for bringing everything you've learned back into your everyday life, because the real transformation begins when you return home. Transportation back to the airport will be provided.
Our hope is that you leave with so much more than beautiful memories. You leave with practical tools, meaningful friendships, and a new relationship with yourself.
What is included?
Transportation
Transportation to and from airport
Luxury Accommodations
4 night, 5 day stay in the luxury, beach-front mansion. Shared queen and king size beds, private pool, and beautiful architecture surrounds you in this 22,000 sq. ft. oasis.
5 Star Meals
Two private in-house chefs who will create anything your heart (and stomach) desires! They can also accommodate any special dietary concerns to make sure every guest's need is met.
Daily Yoga Nidra
Learn how to fully rest & connect with a calmer, clearer version of you. Our daily practice will guide you to a restful state, where you'll ask yourself questions & find clarity in yourself.
Confidence Reset Workshops
Daily lessons and discussions on body image, to put an end to the war against your body. Heal, trust, and love your body again with these powerful workshops.
Private + Group Photoshoot Experiences with Kristen and Natasha
Experience working with two boudoir photographers creating the most gorgeous images of you both in group photoshoots as well as private BONUS photo shoots as well!
What's not included:
Airfare
Airfare to and from Puerto Vallarta, Mexico are not included. You are responsible for your own airfare.
Travel Insurance
Travel insurance is recommended but not included, must be arranged individually
Dates: October 30-November 3
Location: Puerta Vallarta, Mexico
Pricing: $2990 usd (**scholarship ticket july 31 application close)
$299 first payment, payment plans of 3 months available
Flights are NOT included in the cost of the experience. You will be responsible for your own flights.
Please plan to arrive no earlier than 11am on the first day of your event and leave no later than 2pm on the last day.
Not at all. While most people end up feeling comfortable enough to disrobe 1-2 days into the event, we want people feel like they are the best version of themselves which means you are welcome to wear as much or as little clothes as you desire.
We will be sad that you are unable to join us and will miss you! All tickets are non-refundable, but they are transferable up to 6 weeks before the event start date. You will be responsible for finding someone to take your place and then put us in contact with the person that is taking your spot. Should you choose not to transfer your ticket to someone else, you get sick or hurt your ticket is non-refundable. This is why we make it mandatory to purchase trip insurance as soon as you book your ticket because you never know what will happen! Here’s a great site to compare different insurance offerings to make you feel safe & secure.
The rooms are shared rooms, but you will have individual beds. If you have a specific request for needs please do not hesitate to ask! We will do our best to accommodate everyone!
The age ranges of our client base varies but with our 40 over 40 project we have had a ton of 60 year olds and 70 year olds join! We welcome women of all ages 40-90 to come enjoy the experience of celebrating YOU.
Free laundry and daily maid service. All bedroom suites have air conditioned. Newly re-tiled large, private, heated pool with water feature and programmable lights. Full time staff of 13 including private chefs, housemen, maids, maintenance, administrator, night watchmen and gardeners.2 Private Chefs prepare gourmet meals, twice daily. Housemen act as servers and bartenders. The kitchen is available for use any time.
Easy access via 2 elevators. Exterior elevator takes you from entrance to main living room level, and the interior elevator takes you from master suite to living room, to junior master suite and twin room, to pool level. Must take stairs from pool level to get to beach. One wheelchair on site.
Airport pickup available. Use our concierge or houseman to book excursions. An excursion guide is available on site.
Yes, definitely, we wouldn’t go there if we didn’t think so! You will feel much safer in most parts of Puerto Vallarta than in the United States or Canada. There is very little crime here, and what does exist is usually petty compared to the U.S. The tourist police here are friendly and very helpful. Obviously use your common sense and be aware, and at night stay on main streets. Warning, do not attempt to purchase marijuana or other drugs as the police here have a vigilant “sting” program in operation and you don’t want to be in a position of bribing yourself out of jail.
The peso is Mexico’s official currency, but many places will take US dollars. Be aware that larger bills can be harder for vendors to break so bring plenty of $1’s, $5’s, and $10’s and know you'll get pesos back as change. If you go on an adventure way out of the main tourist areas, it will be best that you bring enough pesos along. Avoid changing too much money at the airport as you don’t get as good of a rate! Banks give the best rate but require you to take in your passport. There are plenty of ‘Cambio’ stations where you can trade US bills for Pesos around town, you'll also need a passport or driver's license to use these. ATM's are available in town, use common sense with these and choose one associated with a bank instead of one at a bar or randomly on a side street. You'll be charged a small service fee to use them and most limit you to $300 per day per card. If you run out of cash, this is definitely the best option!
You can bring your laptop, tablet, phone etc. There is Wi-Fi in the Villa and there are a number of free hot-spots and internet cafes around Puerto Vallarta. If you don’t want to bring your own device, the Villa has a desktop computer for you to use any time you like. There are a number of apps like Whatsapp, Facetime, Skype, etc. you can use to keep in touch with loved ones at home. You are also able to make free local and international calls at the villa as well. Check with your cell phone provider to find out what kind of international plans are available for you while in Mexico. Some can be very affordable, while others are quite expensive!
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